Jassi,

Have you made efforts for her to stay with your brother? If your brother really doesn't want to stay with her and she is really threatening you then I would advise the following:

1. Start collecting evidences

2. Record (audio and video) all the conversation over the phone and meetings with her

3. If required then your brother can file a NC in your local Police Station stating that he fears that his wife can implicate him and his entire family in false dowry cases.

4. Join local SIF meetings in Mumbai. Meeting details can be found on internet at SIF website. They organise a weekly meeting on Saturday or Sunday. So please don;t miss on this Sat or Sun.

For details on how to safeguard yourself, please read various threads on this forum. One of them is:

http://www.legalserviceindia.com/forum/display_topic_threads.asp?ForumID=34&TopicID=8795&SearchPagePosition=1&search=kumar88&searchMode=phrase&searchIn=Author&forum=34&searchSort=dateDESC&ReturnPage=Search

By the way, which city of Punjab your brother's wife belongs to?

Jassi,

Just be cool for some time and then ask her politely to come back. By that time she would also have realised that she is missing something and want to come back. I would also suggest you to send her the loving and missing SMS. Involve elders from both the sides in resolving the matter. If she gives the threat on the phone regarding the false cases, record the converstaion and keep it in the safe deposit vault for future use. You can reply politely that she can file the case if she wants and mostly what will happen is that you would be jailed for 2 days and then come out. But they will not be able to prove the case and still you will insist on bringing you back. In short, send the message across that you do not care of the false cases and you are ready to fight the cases, no matter what happens. This will be the counter effect on her to file the cases.

Jassi,

If you are sure that you cannot confront them headon, pls tell ur brother to sign her divorce papers..NQA ( No Questions Asked ). Do not create addl heaches like asking for Narcotic tests..etc etc...there is no point digging them, unless ur very clear that you will not take their allegations head-down and prepared to fight tooth-and-nail. Just tell ur brother to sign her divorce papers and leave her to hell.

They cannot do any harm to ur brother, just threatening...not easy.

Jassi,

Your brother has got the golden opurtunity so grab this. Ask him to accept the divorce and move on in life. No use of fighting court cases for years. Also you can not expect decency, ethics from the opposite party whom you believe is a prostitute.

Accept divorce!

I do not understand why doesnt your brother put in his comments or is it you who wants this girl to go away from his life. How certain you are about it? From my side no comments, unless I hear it from the affected person.

All the Best.

Riya.

Dear Jassi,

If your brother's wife is ready for divorce and asking for divorce, in such case you agree for divorce and file a mutual consent petition to take divorce.

As a matter of fact, which is very clear from your postings that you brother is looking for divorce from the girl, which girl is asking.

I would suggest to agree for the same and end all your problems here.

Regards,

Regards,

Jassi,

First of all, clarification is required. Your brother's in-laws are criminal but they would be in Punjab and not in Mumbai? You also said (in your first post) that his BIL is in Police? So what exactly is their background? Are they criminals or in Police? Which state in coty they are based? Please clarify.

Now coming to your problems, If the poice is harrassing you then you should meet the higher police authorities. If you are staying in Mumbai, then meet the DCP of your area. Hand over him a NC (detailing all the facts) and ask him to direct the respective IO in your PS. Tell him that you are getting threats from his BIL along with the false dowry cases. First make yourself safe and then move forward. I would also advise you to go and meet home minister of Maharashtra, if possible, otherwise send NC to his office and others like CM, PM, State Human Rights and National human rights etc. Don't delay in acting on these lines.

Just send a message to them that you don't afraid of them. Then if they agree, file for mutual consent divorce.