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Title: 498A, DV, CASES - CHEATING BY WIFE - SPYWARE INSTALLED - PLEASE HELP
Post by: harikanth on September 27, 2017, 11:53:27 AM
Sir/Madam,

I had married in Feb this year. Since my marriage the girl behaving very differently and for everything she is creating an issue and projecting me as if i am troubling her. It grew suspicion and i later found out that she is still continuing affair with her ex-boyfriend and they have planned to create a scene that am harassing her, then take divorce from me and they want to marry. The girl is continuously telling lies to her family and they are believing her as she acts very innocently.
She carefully and patiently chats with her ex like no phone calls, just watsapp messages that too are immediately deleted after texting.
Initially i could get very minimum evidence of their affair like watsapp conversation with which a general person can understand that there is an affair going on but it will not hold much weight to submit in court for showing how she is cheating.
She was with me for around 3 months in total of our 8 months marriage.

I have installed a spyware in her mobile and now have a very good evidence which can clearly show that she has cheated me and where their watsapp conversation has been recorded. Her friend suggests her to torture me so that i myself will leave her and she acknowledges her by telling I am doing the same. She is now spreading rumors on me that I have beat her and troubled her which are totally false.

My question is,

1) Installing a spyware on wifes mobile after understanding that there is an affair going on of her and all the disturbances is coz of her infidelity. Is it a crime ?  and
Can i use it as evidence and wil it be considered as evidence.?
If it is crime then what punishment will be given for that as i have done it solely to bring out the truth of her and to save myself from all the cases she would file later and play with my life by demanding money.


2) Just after applying for divorce, can she start staying with her boyfriend ?

3) How can i avoid or minimize the maintenance and alimony as coz of her i had lost my job twice and after marriage, since 2 months am jobless.with great difficulty i have got a job in a market of recession. it has become a mental harassment on me that i couldnt do a job properly.

4) Is there any legal way to get back of the deleted whatsapp chatting between them ?

PLEASE HELP ME ITS VERY URGENT FOR ME AND I AM VERY MUCH SCARED.
Title: Re: 498A, DV, CASES - CHEATING BY WIFE - SPYWARE INSTALLED - PLEASE HELP
Post by: advcaroltripathi on October 23, 2017, 10:47:25 PM
use it as evidence in court and see what the court has to say, will it accept it as evidence is entirely courts discretion
Title: Re: 498A, DV, CASES - CHEATING BY WIFE - SPYWARE INSTALLED - PLEASE HELP
Post by: psdhingra on December 04, 2017, 09:48:19 AM
YOUR CASE SEEMS TO BE QUITE SERIOUS. MAXIMUM CAUTIONS ARE NECESSARY TO BE ADOPTED BY YOU. HOWEVER, ABOUT YOUR FEAR, EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR.

FOR SUITABLE ADVICE, INSTEAD OF RELYING ON CASUAL RESPONSES AT THIS SITE, IT WOULD BE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET IN TOUCH OF SOME FAMILY LAWS EXPERT, DISCUSS IN DETAIL, AS THE ISSUES ARE QUITE TIME CONSUMING TO SORT OUT THE MATTER.