Confusion still manages to survive between marriage and live-in relationships.
In today's world, things are changing rapidly and people are more inclined
towards adopting culture of other countries which fascinates them. In India
western culture has been followed since many past years and live-in relationship
is also part of such culture change. Indian culture, values and traditions are
losing its importance after Live-in relationships has started affecting the
approach of youth towards it.
In roads in Indian society has been build because of adapting lifestyle of
Live-in Relationship definition is unclear with its erroneous interpretations
existing all over the globe especially in India. If somewhere sometime in the
Indian society if the word live-in relationship is uttered, then mostly people
think of sex based relationships. People need to understand that relationship
can be between parents, friends, brothers, sisters etc, but if western culture
comes in play relationship means body based relationship.
Relationship can be at
many different levels but people tend to consider only one particular
relationship so important against others which are couple relationship where
women and man live with together with the sense of emotional and physical
connectivity between them.
Live-in relationship is not even defined under The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 also
has not been given recognition under Indian constitution.
Effects of live-in relationships:
Youth is extracting benefits for the most part explicit purposes but not its
profundity and sensitivity for which it is practiced in western countries.
Slowly and gradually, Indian youth is building the ideology of considering one
relationship vs. the rest, it may not be so and the ideology should be changed
and revived in a positive way where people understand the importance of each and
every relationship they form in their life span.
Live-in can be interpreted as living in an uncommitted way. When there is lack
of commitment between partners in any kind of relationship principally live-in
relationships, there is no real sense of respect for the other person's body,
views, thoughts etc.
In live-in relationships, there is no emotional security as anytime anywhere the
partner can split out of the relationship bond they had formed in live-in
relationships as their lies no law tying them which guarantees each partner's
rights in its true sense of personal liberty. It is well researched that when
there is emotional and financial insecurity, one cannot concentrate in any work.
People can never act in a positive and productive manner when there is absence
of above mentioned securities within themselves.
Marriage laws, Nature of Marriage and its interpretations:
In marriage there may be a lot of ugliness in the situation sometimes even
excessive amount of disputes occur between couples which leads to divorce but
that is exceptional case and happens only when both the partners are unwilling
to settle the disputes. Marriage is not just a mere sacred bond which bounds two
people to live together, but it much more than attachment of two people.
Marriage creates bond and relations within two families and so much people and
sentiments are involved when the marriage takes place so it is not easy to break
down such rigid bond constructed between two families.
Marriage is not a fairly tale story happening nor it is an event exercised in
heaven. It is just a mere truthful statement of commitment between couples.
Marriage also called as matrimony or wedlock, is a socially recognized union or
contract between spouses that establishes certain rights obligations towards
each other which are enshrined in the constitution.
Considering the diverse culture in India, different laws and provisions has been
framed which lays down the procedure and guidelines for proper execution of
marriages in various religions and regions in accordance to their personal will.
In the significant case of Chanmuniya vs. Virendra Kumar Singh Khushwaha (2011)
Chanmuniya was legally married wife of Ram Saran, together they had 2 children.
Afterwards Ram died and Chanmuniya married to the younger brother of Ram, named
Virendra Kumar with local ceremonies. After some period Virendra started
harassing Chanmuniya and then Chanmuniya asked for maintenance.
According to the
section 7 of Hindu Marriage Act (1955), the marriage was not legal and binding
because of absence of proper customary rites and ceremonies. Uttar Pradesh high
court dismissed Chanmuniya's plea and the matter went to Supreme Court. Supreme
Court stated as per section 125 of Code of Criminal Procedure, maintenance is
only available to legally wedded wife.
Later on Supreme Court held that women in live-in relationship are also entitled
to all the reliefs granted in section 125 of Code of Criminal Procedure.
Legality of live-in relationship in India:
The legal status of live-in relationship is still uncertain and undefined.
Rights and obligations of the parties living in live-in relationships are not
mentioned under Indian law. Also the status of children born during such
relationship is ambiguous. Therefore, for providing certainty and clarification
to such relationship various judgments have been passed by the court. Court has
logically stated that partners cohabiting with each other for much longer time
will be considered as legal live-in relationship.
In the case of S.P.S. Balasubramanyam vs. Suruttayan (1994)
, Supreme Court held
that there will be a presumption of marital relationships where a man and women
are living under the same roof, ground under section 114 of Indian Evidence Act.
Also the children born out of such cohabitation will be legitimate and no one
can question the existence of those children.
In Indra Sharma vs. V.K. Sharma (2013)
, Justice K.S. Panicker Radhakrishnan
stated that live-in relationship is neither illegal nor a crime in the eyes of
law though not acceptable by Indian society. Each one has the rights to live and
it's their personal choice.
Subsequently, Supreme Court in its judgment laid down certain guidelines which
will prove the validity of live-in relationships in India i.e.:
- Domestic relationship between adults, when both the gender is unmarried
is sorted relationship.
- Domestic relationship between a married male and unmarried female, with
- Conviction under section 497 of Indian Penal Code, where domestic
relationship persists between married women and unmarried man knowingly.
- Domestic relationship between unmarried women and married man
- Domestic relationship between same sex partners.
The court further stated section 2(f) of the Protection of Women from Domestic
Violence Act, 2005 will govern the concept of live-in relationship which falls
under the expression "relationship in the nature of marriage
In the current case law, court held that the relationship between the parties do
not fall under the nature of marriage.
Nevertheless, there is no concrete legality laid down for live-in relationships
but this concept has continued in India even though it is observed as threat to
Indian civilized society.
In S. Khushboo vs. Kanniamal and others
, (2010), Supreme Court dropped all the
charges against the petitioner. The charges were section 509 and 292(1) of
Indian Penal Code (1860). Court was of the view that living together was legal
irrespective of the fact that it was immoral for the conservative Indian
In the year 2008, on 30th June, National Commission for Women put forward their
views to Ministry of Women and Child Development to include women in live-in
relationship to be categorized under section 125 CRPC and should be considered
as wife who has lived with man for a reasonable period. Maharashtra government
sanctioned the proposal to give legal status to women in live-in
In landmark case of Veluswamy vs. Patchaimal (2010)
, Supreme Court judgment laid
down certain parameters which will determine the live-in relationship existed or
not. It provides that to be considered under live-in relationship and claim
relief under the same the couple must have cohabited for a certain or
significant period, must be above 21 years of age and must be unmarried.
Therefore if a couple is living only for financial or sexual benefits from each
other than women will need vital evidence to prove that they were in live-in
relationship to get such benefit of the Protection of Women from Domestic
Violence Act, 2005. Merely spending nights will not amount to live-in
Law commission accompanied with Mali math committee 2003 suggested that relief
and maintenance to women in live-in relationship should by now specified as
they are also entitled for maintenance under section 125 Criminal Procedure Code
if found legally practicing live-in relationship with evidence and cannot be
called mistress which can lead to defamation.
There is a huge load on human conscience where the mind keeps fluctuating
between what is right and what is wrong. This picture needs to be cleared by
analyzing the needs and requirements of the society and then welcoming advanced
One's conduct can be regulated through crucial instruments known as law and
Well established law need to define the rights and obligations of women and
legitimacy of child in the event children born out of such relationship as its
legal status is ambiguous.
Law need to differentiate the couples on the basis of duration they spend in
live-in relationships which makes the distinction between legally wedded couple
and presumed legally married couple.
With change, needs change in mindset of the society. The government needs to
assure proper and organized lay out of live-in relationship concept persisting
in India with permanent and stable provision engraved in the constitution while
ensuring the respect, dignity and sentiments remain safeguarded of those
conservative people who are against live-in relationship and desire to continue
following their old traditions and culture.