Hi, I was in love with a stupid person since 2006, and even had sex with me. I trusted him a lot and everytime when i asked him to marry me, he just asked me to wait and not even taken a single step to marry me. I waited so long for him and he went abroad to earn money. With that money, he bought me a laptop which i never asked him. I refused to get the laptop, but he said if i don't get it, he won't talk to me. So i got it from him and convinced my parents that i have bought it. He was caught by customs for getting gold ornaments without paying tax when he was back to India in 2012. Since then he avoided me fully, never picked my phone calls even at the times of emergencies, and constantly asked me to marry someone else. Even then i waited for him till 2014. He hurted me wantedly and made me to cry everyday. He said he is getting married and so i made up my mind to get m arried to some one else as my mother was feeling bad of me and crying every day. I get married before 4 months.
I informed him through my friend that I will pay his money once i get a job. He has not waited and now he is blackmailing my parents for money. He said that he bought laptop, phone for me and grabbed 1 lakh. Even-though he has billed them high, my parents had paid him. But now again he is blackmailing them by telling that he is having the bus tickets, Hotel bills etc and for that asking us to give him 2 lakhs. We don't have that much money. He has cheated me in a well planned manner. For his sake i have wasted 8 years, i have behaved rudely to my parents, even i got severe sinusitis problem as I cried every day, scolded my parents, cheated my parents, lost my virginity too, feeling guilty to see my husband
. I have spent a lot of money for him, but i don't have any proofs. Many bills are with him even for which I have paid. I don't know what to do now. Can I file a case and will it have any privacy?
My parents have the msgs that he has sent.
Pls note: In that 8 years I was mad on him and behaved like a devil. Even I scream out loud every nights during those 8 years and even i refused going to temples. Now I am not at all screaming at nights and very religious. So my parents suspects that he has done somekind of black magics or vasiyas on me. Most of the things that happened and even his face is not in my memory. I am feeling strange. Please help me to get out of this issue...