we were a very happily married Hindu couple since 2005.
2009, Iost my job in UAE and had to come back to India while my wife remained in UAE.
While i was desperately looking for a job, I could not get either in India or UAE. My wife kept travelling to India to visit me.
In 2011, we went for a small vacation where my Mother in Law misbehaved with me. She left us in middle of vacation and me and my wife drove back alone.
Wife flew back to UAE but my mother in law kept misbehaving with me, for which i told her some stron words.
In exchange, she made my wife resign from her job, cancel her visa and come back to India.
I went to her place to make sure that my wife has really come back. There I was attacked by her relatives, escorted out by police and put in lock up overnight under section 155.
After 5 months we started chatting with each other and she kept making stupid excuses of delaying coming back.
In exchange, I abused her father, disclosed my mother in laws extramarital affair and 2 murders.
I flew to UAE with a job in 2012. We were chatting normally while she was yet reluctant to come back and yet confirming me that she wants to come back but her family members wont allow her to.
I abused her family big time on the emails. almost 20 emails per day, full of royal order desi north indian adjectives, cc to the whole family.
I opened her Facebook and emails to find out that she is purposely delaying to come back.This made her to file reports in cybercell for hacking and a few more police complains (NOT FIR) against myself and my mother. Probably to claim back the jewllery we purchased with joint savings. I realised that she has made the cyber cell summons to my Managing Director in UAE, because of which i lost my job again.
She has also filed divorce case on grounds of "irretreavable damage to marriage" and "change of my religion (since abusive words are not practised in Hinduism".
She appealed for an exparty proceeding since I never went to the court from UAE.Judge granted her the permission for ex-party.
I am yet very hopeful and confident that she does not want to divorce me, She is under heavy control of her mother who is a bad woman to an extent of murdering 2 lives (sister in law and one abortion). Her mother made my wife physically satisfy the politicians so the murder case be closed as suicide. My wife got pregnant and her mother killed that child too. I knew this before marriage and overlooked it for a happy life forward.
While I recently visited India, I couriered her a mobile phone, just before boarding the flight to UAE so that she does not mess with my passport.
In return, her lawyer came with her and police not less than 5 times and I picked up the phone to threaten him of making police reports that he forced enter my residence, tried to loot and rape my mother and threatened her of life. I have not yet lodged this report. It was only a threat.
My lawyers have adviced to let the decree come to be able to kill the police complaints she has made. The moment i approach High Court to re-unite, the police reports will come live again.
Her lawyer is well known for his crooked approach and blackmail. He was also slapped a fine of Rs 10,000 for wasting Court's time on a baseless petition.
How do I get my wife back?? She is neither receiving my phone nor replying my mails. She does read them all.