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How to save ourselves against any false legal action
« on: January 25, 2014, 04:26:47 AM »
My son got married in Dec. 2012. We have not taken any dowry as we are against it. We just wanted simple girl nothing else.

The behavior of daughter-in-law is not good. Her views don\\\'t match with the husband. Every other day there is clash in the house. She is not adjusting with my son and threats that she will eat something or will fall from terrace.
She doesn't want to live in Bangalore and she will go to her parents house. 2-3 times this happened and his father said every time that she will adjust and they send her back to Bangalore from their native. She again fights and this time again her father took her with all clothes, her educational documents and ornaments.

I am a senior citizen and patient of heart and diabetes.

Now, can you please suggest what we should do for our safety in any legal matter in bangalore?

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Re: How to save ourselves against any false legal action
« Reply #1 on: January 27, 2014, 03:40:46 AM »
Adjustments and compromises are part and parcel of married life. Both the spouses should take each other's likes and dislikes into consideration and only then compatibility is created. In today's young couple it is difficult to instill these things as they are impatient and do not give much importance to relations. As a parent, you can always advice your son to try and understand his partner. For girls it is a bit difficult to adjust to new families and take long as there is a certain kind of lifestyle that they are used to and suddenly they are taken out of their comfort zone and put into unfamiliar circumstances where expectations from them are huge and they do at times feel bogged down by these pressures. Your DIL is as much a part of your family now give her some space and time to understand you all.
Both husband and wife are adults and very well equipped and mature enough to handle these everyday disputes that are commonplace in marriages. From your side try your best to reconcile the couple. You should not have let her father take her away. With the laws being tilted in favour of women in India, god forbid if they get aggravated it might lead to only trouble for you people in form of DV and 498A. My suggestion would be to take your son to get her back. Both the families should sit together and hear out each other's stories and without any bias try and amicably resolve the matter. Putting aside ego for a long term happiness is the key here. So do not think that just because we are from the boy's side we should not bend.  If a bit of adjustment from your side can bring happiness then please do it. And post the reconciliation try and suggest both of them to live separately from you as atleast it will save you, your wife and rest of the family from any harsh actions in future and will also give both of them time to spend in each other's company and try and understand each other better.

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Re: How to save ourselves against any false legal action
« Reply #2 on: January 27, 2014, 10:02:49 AM »
Hello Madam,

Me and my son already asked her many times to tell if anything wrong from our side, then she will not tell. She will say nothing wrong. But, her main problem is ego. Our family has given her lot of love and care, I can say with confidence that we always treated her like daughter but she didn't treat us like in-laws. This is not the first instance like this. This has happened many times in last 1 year and now I being old and ill cannot carry forward this. We just want to resolve the peacefully.

Our family is totally against dowry and just wanted simple, loving and caring daughter. But, her thoughts and views doesn't match with our family and my son.

We don't live permanently with them, we come for a month or so, rest of the time they are alone. Then also she fights with my son and don't understand him. We stay with her during day so that she doesn't do anything wrong while my son is in office i.e, we take care of her. My wife always does household work. We can't help more than that.

We can't bear her threats to us in past about suicide and also the mental torture me and my family have suffered from her words. It's not possible to write each and every thing here in detail but conclusion is I want peace in my life and we can't bring her back after all this.

We are just concerned about our safety legally if we can do something about it so as to save from any false blames or complaints.

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Re: How to save ourselves against any false legal action
« Reply #3 on: February 13, 2014, 10:05:00 AM »
Hello sir / madam,

There is some progress in the case, as I mentioned before girl's father took and told they will make girl understand not to fight and then boy can come after 2-3 months and take her back, but after few days of taking her, he started calling us again and again asking to come back, this week we went and they decided to separate bride and groom. We are ok with their decision and we decided on certain amount to be paid to them. And, they said after we give that amount then only divorce will be filed in court and not before that which appears risk to us, but they are kind of gundae from whom we are scared and don't know what to do.

Also, yesterday girl called boy's neighbours and told boy is mentally and physically ill and used to beat her everyday which is totally false. Now, we want to understand and know the procedure how to handle such case, she can file false complaint against us, how to save ourselves from this? Can we get anticipatory bail for this?

 

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