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Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« on: February 05, 2014, 10:13:54 AM »
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I got married 3 years ago , we had a love marriage. first 1.5 years we spend in india living with mother in law and sister inlaw .Mother in law is very dominating and whats everything her way, but  shows off to husband  she cares for me.Husband initially supported me once or twice but mother in law used to get angry or cry .so husband just stopped empathizing with me and would not support , instead say " if u cant live with my family you can leave / take divorce, i regret marrying you" .
Money matters and discussion were down between mother and son behind closed door.there used to be some issue everyday and i was tired of it all.I was treated as an outsider.

1.5 years ago my husband found a job outside India and we came here ;until recently all was ok till one day i told him to invest in a house instead of a plot so that when we go back in 6 months time , we can live there as i cant live with mother in law. Then all fights started and again he started being insenstive  and oblivious to my feelings and same rude words " that i love my mother more i will leave you  or if u want you can stay in a separate flat i will vist u as and when i want".I feel that my life is just getting to messed up and this all is a emotional and mental torture .

Please advise
- how to proceed with divorce in a situation like this
- will my situation be considered  and justice given , will my case be strong on grounds of emotional and mental torture
- how will the settlement be in this case .i want them to understand that taking a divorce is not a joke that every time u can pressurize me and scare me by saying if you cant live like this , then u can go

Please help me

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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2014, 10:28:09 PM »
U can file for divorce on grounds of cruelty. U have not mentioned whether u have children or are u working or not, which city in India are u from ..kindly give details
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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2014, 10:34:14 PM »
File for maintenance along with divorce, you can also make a formal complaint in caw cell regarding the torture,  that can also help
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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2014, 11:37:05 PM »
Hi all

Thanks !
we do not have a child . I am a working woman.
Also my husband and I used to live in Delhi , currently we are working out of India for a project .
If i do go ahead with the decision to divorce i will immediately return to delhi , stay separately (not with in laws) and file for divorce . what do you suggest .
My worry is -if i initiate the divorce , I will be at the receiving end and he will play pricy and not give me divorce easily .While if he initiates will that be better ?

Also
- If i am working , can i claim maintenance ( house rent , bills, medical  etc )
- he will inherit his mother's house , has LIC and savings in cash
-how do i claim settlement
- how should i make this a "lesson learnt "experience for him ( because there is no value for me in this relationship , he is always trying to accuse me and hold mother and himself in good light, just do not care how i feel emotionally  )

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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2014, 02:57:30 AM »
Hi

Please help on this issue . Im  in a bad situation .

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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #5 on: February 25, 2014, 01:07:59 PM »
please help .

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Re: Marriage on the rocks @ in laws and husband
« Reply #6 on: February 25, 2014, 09:01:48 PM »
- If i am working , can i claim maintenance ( house rent , bills, medical  etc )
Ans: claim for maintenance would depend whether after divorce are u being able to maintain the same standard of living as u enjoy as a married person, if yes than chances of maintenance is deem.

- he will inherit his mother's house , has LIC and savings in cash
Ans: You have no claim over anything that belongs to his mother, nor do u have any claim over his savings

-how do i claim settlement
Ans: settlement is not claimed first of all, there are two ways in getting about it either u both mutually agree upon a lumpsum amount or file in court for alimony. since you are working u should try the first option.

- how should i make this a "lesson learnt "experience for him ( because there is no value for me in this relationship , he is always trying to accuse me and hold mother and himself in good light, just do not care how i feel emotionally  )
Ans: you can file for domestic violence, 498a etc, initally he will be harrased but if you are not able to prove the charges these things will back fire plus it is a long and lenghty process spanning over atleast 5 years and many court dates. at the end of it you might ask was it worth it.

Since your matter is in Delhi you speak to advocate Choudhury here is his ph no: 9873628941 he is an accomplished lawyer.

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