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Offline ramesh1979

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Wife Threatening for property
« on: April 26, 2014, 12:58:56 PM »
Hello Sir,


In 2013, i got married and we are having a new-born baby.Before the engagement the girls family came to check my home and enquired about my salary , I said 30k per month and property details. Meanwhile they told about them like they are living in a rented home.No property in their name.They felt my family is too big for them. They said we can afford 25 savarans gold only to your son.Just becos of their family values,Girls good education/character we agreed though it is far less than my parents gave to our son-in-laws.


The engagement/marriage happened smoothly at the expense my dad's money Rs.15 lakh including 12 savarans to my wife.In the marriage not even single rupee spent by my wife's side....I felt outrageous.I thought it is fair if the expenses shared between both parties... My mum looked after her nicely.She cooked variety of dishes to make her happy and gave very little work like cutting vegs/brooming home.Even after marriage my mum did shopping for her cloths n number of times/till 7th month we looked after the marriage.she gave a birth...My Mother is orthodox. So she was longing for some custom procedure like dress for diwali,bangle function as everyone liked ...

Meanwhile i lost job temporarily so i asked my wife's family Rs.1Lakh to lend me and give you back when i get the job. They Said why the **** we need to help you. We are not supposed to give any money to you and there is custom procedure like giving anything on any festivals and we are expecting you to earn Rs.1 lakh per month. Little misunderstanding came between us.After birth they called me to take their daughter(My wife ) with me. I went on to talk them and said my wife has to take care all the work in the house and look after my mum's meals/washing/giving my parents respect.They said they can't do all of them.I Felt really bad.Because for financial they need my dad , cooking/cleaning/Looking after her they need my mum, to run family they need Rs.1lakh from me per month(though i said i earn Rs.30k per month)...

All of these things running in my mind. So i said this doesn't work..Though i love my wife, i can't put my parents and myself in terrible working conditions to make her sit and roam around without doing nothing. I said we seperate... for that they demanding 4 times of gold what they gave + My property and put all three of us in jail for dowry harrashment. Though we are not expecting any money from them, Are we not entitled to any new-marriage customs/look after my parents.My parents are not supposed to do everything but they did all for care towards me and my wife.... But same thing i couldn't expect from my wife's side..... I am ready to give what they gave me, i take my baby's custody But need the money spent for my marriage and dont want to give any compensation for who did nothing to stick the marriage......... Please suggest me to save my parents money and my baby.

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Re: Wife Threatening for property
« Reply #1 on: April 29, 2014, 06:36:36 PM »
U are scared so they will take advantage.... The day u tell them i wont give a penny if required go to jail. Than they wont have anything to do
understand that this is a family matter not criminal case so for u jail wont be third degree punishment rather it will be a restroom u can write a novel

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Re: Wife Threatening for property
« Reply #2 on: April 29, 2014, 06:39:31 PM »
You file rcr be a man, also which city are u from

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Re: Wife Threatening for property
« Reply #3 on: April 29, 2014, 06:41:44 PM »
Your wife can claim maintenance from your money not your parents money

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Re: Wife Threatening for property
« Reply #4 on: May 13, 2014, 07:21:48 AM »
yes true, your wife can claim maintainence money i feel so, its better you personally meet a lawyer and get a right advise. I can understand she is trying to put herself above you . Its human mentality .
First and foremost try to manage , since you are attached with your parents since birth that' why they are your first priority.Thinks from her ( your wife ) point of view too who has left her home and made relation with you and shared herself with you and given birth to your baby.
As the time passes everything gets settled. Try to make her understand . Strike slowly and steadily to her mind.
Use socrates rule ,if you want someone to follow you .follow her first .
Still if you feel that that is not possible for your . contact and meet a lawyer . but separation is not the solution . think about the next partner ?
Everything is possible. you are a super human .be brave man.

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Re: Wife Threatening for property
« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2014, 12:40:55 PM »
guys........... how do i post a new inquiry on the page? cant see the option anywhere.

 

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