I had been using facebook before my marriage. Now, my id and password was asked by my fiance and I gave it to him, without hesitation. After a few days of Marriage, I got to know from my Brother in law, that somebody with the name of Preity Sharma( don't remember exactly), wrote a message to his wife (Brother in law's wife), stating that I have had affairs before marriage, and that I dumped so many boys. The message was full of pathetic words, which was a straight attack on my character.
My brother in law gave me the id and password of his wife,so that I could read it. When I tried to go to that person's page who had written such things for me, I discovered that the account was deleted.
He told me not to tell about it to my husband, however, in good faith I gave the details to him, telling him the password and id.
After a lot of discussion on this, my husband made ,me swear on him that what was written was incorrect, the matter closed. It has been more than 1.5 years now.
I and my parents did not pay much heed since the id where that message had come from was deleted. We did not want to get into police matter,so we ignored thinking that everything is fine.
But, with time, my husband and his mother kept repeating that incident, whenever, I complaint about anything. It seemed to have been a weapon for them. Last time, when I was facing serious issues in marriage, my brother in law contacted one of my friends asking him about my character. Besides, my husband was found using my facebook id, which he made me delete just after marriage. My friend gave me a call and told me that she saw me online. Since, I had deleted my id, it was not possible for me to believe. But then, on asking, My husband confessed that he did activate my id, to find things about me.
All this has disturbed me a lot, and now, I have emotionally become weak, as my character is being questioned time and again, despite of the fact that I had clearly said that if he is not trusting me, he can leave me.
But he didn't do it then.
Now, after facing domestic violence, and emotional torture, I have returned to my family. And he and his family members are trying to use that matter as a mean of assassinating my character.
What should I do.