I am sure my case is a bit odd and I could not even find the right group to post it and I thought this comes close to it.
If issue between a father and son does not count under domestic abuse / violence , please guide me whereelse can I post this.
I am 33 year old.
My father 63 , a registered but non-practising advocate.
We hail from a small town in southern part of India.
I lost my mother to suicide when I was 3 months age and brought up by grand parents and aunts . My dad used to visit but mostly had been a recluse.
I have been pretty close to my father whenever he used to visit and there were good times.
After grand parents' demise and aunts made their own homes and joint family disrupted due to property issues , it has been just my father and I as a family from 2003.
Then I started understanding and feeling his psychotic behaviour.
I understood that he drove my mother to suicide.
He kept driving me to the same.
There is a lot of psychological torture and mental abuse which I cannot write in brief now.
He has affairs , with other women .
He used to ruin my relationship with friends and tried to marry me with a girl in whom he had sexual interests . Many unspeakable acts like this.
I kept silent for all , for the fear of being an orphan is I lose him and also been a bit sympathetic to him that may be he will change some day.
But over the years , the amount of emotional blackmail and defamation about me and other things just keep growing.
I clearly understood one thing...
there is CRORES worth of property which naturally has to come to me as it belong to grand parents.
He does not want to hand it over to me.
He wants me to commit suicide sothat he can have it by himself or share with some other woman( If I dig into this , I am sure to find proofs but I was not comfortable to dig into my father's illegal affairs).
He has 90% of property in his name only , which he made by selling off the property of my grand father , which is legally mine.
And he keeps absconding from every duty and keeps living somewhere where no one can trace him.
I am knowing from friends of him and other relatives that he kept telling everyone that I am mentally unstable and inherited my mothers' genes and threatens of suicide and even to some people that I am not fit for marriage etc.
I have had enough ,and wanted to fight.These are the things he is doing over me
2. indirectly hinting me to commit suicide
3. defaming me
4. not handing over family property
and most importantly , can I file a case 33years later now for his abating to suicide of my mother , now ?
I want justice, peace and my legal rights in property.