I am married for 6 years...Have 2 daughters (5 years and 7 months).. I have been away from my husband since 1 year. This is because of an argument between his mother, sister and me.....
I am a government employee with a good pay and he is a software graphic designer with less pay so he wants me to take financial care of his sister (who is very recently married) and his mother....but i care much of my kids and save some money for their future...their intentions are always like i should take complete responsibility. The other problem is my place of work is 6hr away town. i used to go in weekends to meet him. he lives with his mom and sister...of course his sister recently lives with her husband (which is in neighbourhood). Even i like to take their responsibility but not as much as he asks for that. I had taken part financially in his sisters marriage. Even then he is insisting more from me financially and force me to pamper them, only then he shows some concern towards me. He just stops talking to me suddenly, surprisingly this goes for months... As I'm staying in different place i don't know what happens with him.
Am I doing any wrong here....I have very less time with kids and work and I'm taking my parents help to take care of kids. he doesn't even like my parents....i don't know the reason but.. he didn't mingle his first kid with my parents for 3 years,i adjusted and let it go and didn't complain....now they are helping me rising kids....Now he didn't even saw his 2nd daughter from her birth.. I felt very sad..
Now again he is not talking or responding in anyway...Do i need to wait for his response or i don't know what to do... Anyway I like him and don't want to loose him. I know that he is a good person but his mother is inferior that he may getaway with me. So he gives more priority to his mother...who doesn't give privacy and even we don't have a separate bed room......i can't write much about this......
Please suggest me what should i do.