My wife and her family have been constantly harassing me and their act amounted to mental cruelty. Its been 6 months for our marriage. It was an arranged Hindu marriage. Our marriage had also cancelled before we got marriage due to her rude arrogant behavior. Her family had insulted me even before marriage. She has spoken to my mother and gone for apologies. She has been blowing the trivial matters before and after marriage which I have never expected which leads to out of proportion causing fights. Her behavior was same since beginning. She has also said many times for divorce after 1 year during honeymoon period. Her parents visited my home and asked me to quit the job because of my deputation to foreign for official visit. I am working in a private organization and I have to abide my company decisions as you cannot say “NO” to your boss in private firms. She is absolutely non-cooperative in every respect. Her behavior towards me and my old age parents and mentally sick elder brother are also unbelievable and giving them mental and physical torture. She has not been supporting and helping my old age parents. I have asked my father to message her on her phone for daily greeting,as I wanted to build up the good relation between them, though it proved wrong. She has taken those messages in a wrong way and started insulting and blaming on my father, however there was no sexual message engaged at all.. She is an urban educated girl. In my absence, ( I was in foreign for official visit) she had tried to kill my mother by throwing the hot boiled tea. Marks are still on her stomach. Thanks to God to save her life”. After the incident she has gone to her own home and never turned back. Now, she has also started putting the blames on my father for those messages and my mentally sick elder brother who loved her like a daughter and a sister.
Wife's behavior—constantly quarreling with me loudly while at home and on phone even in front of her own parents that caused me mental anguished. She had also alleged that I am staying with other woman in foreign and also unnecessary allegations by saying “ Your Company is Fraud and your job location is in Nepal” Her family have pressurized me to leave my existing job. Her family member Her family had also harassed me mentally during my office hours to come back to india or to leave the job. I have taken the unpaid leaves from my office for one month to resolve the matter. we went to my In Laws home to take her back but she and her family had insulted me and my family .My wife was loud and insulted my elders in front of her parents. Their behavior was very cruel and arrogant. I have to go back to foreign on 15th Nov’14 , to complete the pending project but my wife and her family were giving me mentally pressure to take her along with me to foreign and stay separate from my family when i will come back to india . It is such a harassment with me and my family that leads to mental cruelty.
This is such a harassment and cruelty. In such behavior, constantly quarrel, deceptive blames have touched mental agony and torture.
Kindly suggest me what to do in this case? I am not ready to stay with her in such behavior at all.