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Mental Harassment by Wife
« on: December 26, 2014, 04:12:24 AM »
Hi All,

Need some help. It will be very helpful if somebody guides me through.

I got married in 13th March,2013. It was arranged marriage, and I was under continuous pressure from my wife and in-laws to stay separate from my family. I was working in a MNC in Bangalore and my wife was forcing me to come back to Kolkata(my native) and stay with her as "Ghar-jamai". I objected by depression caught me and I started drinking heavily. Soon, because of continuous depression and over-drinking I felt sick and my wife and my mother-in-law brought me back to Kolkata where I got admitted to a mental asylum just after 3 months of my marriage. (July 2nd,2013).

After 22 days, I got discharged and soon after it my in-laws came to my house and took all the belongings. She threatened me 498A. I left for Bangalore, but unable to control my emotions and anger and indulged into drinking again. So I had to leave my job and forced to rehabilitate myself for 7 months after an attempt of suicide.

In July,2014 my wife has filed a divorce case and put false allegations of tourcharing her after drink and me having extra-marital affairs in the ground of cruelty (13A). In between, I tried to contact her by sending emails, but she didn't bother to reply. Again, suddenly,in October 2014 she called me up and asked for mutual divorce. I got the paper where she mentioned 8/1 which I understood as a case of nullity and I rejected her. Then they came up with 13B mutual divorce consent which I finally signed on 23rd November,2014.

The first case is not withdrawn yet. And my first hearing is pending on 8th Jan,2015. I am not able to understand what their actual plan is. In mutual consent or in 13A case she didn't ask for any alumni or maintenance. I tried to contact her in recent past, but she didn't reply.

I am getting nervous with this. Does anybody has any idea what she is up to? What she can do? Another question is that I have all the proves with me against her case on 13A. It will not take any effort to prove in the court my innocence, as she mentioned I had beaten and thrown her from my house on 23rd March,2013(10 days after my marriage) where I have all the flight tickets with me confirming our return date on July 1st,2014. And my advocate is very confident about that.

Can I take any steps if she does something wrong? Like can I put any cases against her? Is there any law for male in India to protest the immense mental pressure she had and still putting on me that almost killed me once? I was in terrible mental condition and physical health of mine degreted as I developed heart diseases. Isn't it a crime itself?

Can anybody please help?

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Re: Mental Harassment by Wife
« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2014, 08:19:14 PM »
since you both have agreed to mutual divorce than all the previous cases filed by her should be withdrawn by her first.
before the second motion tell her to withdraw them than only will you appear for second motion

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Re: Mental Harassment by Wife
« Reply #2 on: December 27, 2014, 12:29:01 AM »
Still they haven't withdrawn the previous case. Is it possible, that they covert the first case to a mutual one? Also, can they do anything wrong with the mutual divorce paper as I don't have any copy of it?

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Re: Mental Harassment by Wife
« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2014, 12:56:19 AM »
Get the copy of mutual divorce as soon as possible....Let her first withdraw her cases and then go for second motion...
File a complaint in police that you have fear she may file false cases against you under 498a ..and the police should first investigate before acting on her complaint....
Be bold and fight ...don't spoil your life ...stop drinking and become are a man...
try to find if she has extra marital affair...As she is in hurry to get divorce is creating doubt...

Being offensive is the best defense in world...You have to be more active than your lawyer..Never give original evidences to any lawyer..Keep them with you and only give copies of it


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