I was married last year. I am a Hindu and ours was a typical arranged marriage.
My husband is not a very social person and mostly stays silent. We did not have a very good sexual life either and I tried reasoning him but he did not listen to me any time. I talked to one of the doctors and he tried counselling him too.
Then for some time the things seemed to be fine until I developed fistula and had to be operated. My mother-in-law started nagging and cursing me. I was emotionally tortured which made me go into depression. No affection from husband and the constant nagging from husband lead to General Anxiety Disorder. I was frightened by every little incident. I was too frightened to go to my office too. And then began the real drama. My in-laws started accusing me of cheating them as they wanted a working daughter-in-law. My husband stopped talking to me. We were still living together. And I did not give up my job. They asked me for my salary but I did not really give it to them as my husband had already made it clear that if in future I leave my job I will have to take care of my expenses on my own.
This continued for a few months and then my husband started to threaten me of that if I stayed with him then he will commit suicide. My mother-in-law forced me out of the house. I still went back after some time.
But the emotional abuse continued. My mother-in-law asked daily about our sexual lives and harassed me for making his son interested into making out so that she could have a grandson.
Then one day my husband said that he does not want to continue anyhow. My parents came and took me along.
In the meantime, they have started spreading rumours that I was having extra-marital affairs and that's the reason we have to be separated which has broken me to the core.
Now the problem is that we had invested a huge amount of money in the marriage and my parents are still in debt because of the same. I don't know how to proceed with it.
My husband has yet not filed for the divorce and probably never will because he is a loner and does not want to move on in his life. He would not want me to have an easy divorce.
How do I get the divorce and the money back? Am I entitled to alimony and share in his parental property as well?