I am Venkat and from Bhimavaram. I got married in 2012 February. After marriage, we are fine for 3 months. Since then till date, she has been trying to argue with me for each and every small issue some times even for no reason. During these 3 years from marriage, she has been with me for around 7 months only. She used to go to parents after argument and would never come back to me until unless there is a sitting before mediators and well wishers from both sides.
In January 2014, she went to her home by saying silly reason "her grand father health was not good" and she did not return back. I kept on calling on her home cell phone and through mediators, came to know that, there were no minimum things like cot, water heater, etc. I could not able to provide all those things before she came to new flat as all the house holding goods were there at my home town Bhimavaram. I kept at my home when I was travelling to onsite. My parents booked all these house holding goods to Bangalore (here I was living at that time). Meanwhile just in 8 days, she went back to her parents home because of this silly reason.
In February, she joined in a course at Hyderabad, which she did not inform me but came to know through my friends. Because of this, I traveled to Onsite for 5 months. Then after completion of her course again she started inquiring about me. My parents also she did not give my details as I strictly told them to do so as she went to coaching without informing me.
Now she came with a lawyer to my house and searched my house. Mine is village and every body is laughing at us because of this activity. Now she is asking for divorce and demanding 14 lakhs. I can not pay this much amount considering my family financial condition. I don't have job also currently as forced to resign to my job in December because of this mental torture and came to India from onsite. I told them clearly to the her lawyer also that I can not pay that much amount. Then he is shouting like anything with bad words and of I won't pay that 14 lakhs, he will file an FIR against me and my family members. My parents and me are afraiding as we are not aware of these police and laws.
Kindly suggest me how to face this divorce notice. Is there any way to stop divorce?