I am a 35 year old person working in Delhi & belonging to a small village in Himachal Pradesh. I got married in a poor house in November 2012. My father & Mother live in village with my wife & my 11 month old daughter. It is arrange marriage & my family not demanded anything from my wife family as dowry. My wife has two married elder sisters. At the time of marriage I come to know that my mother in law has some mental problem. My father in law has a very polite & hardworking person & not enough time to look at his home. So, her aunty has fully control on their home. After married I realized that my wife also has some mental problem & she is abusive, short tempura & liar. Her mood is uncertain & swing all the time.
My wife started shouting and abuses my parents within few months of marriage. She started force me to take separate home & demanded part in property to my parents. It is refused by me & my parents. We tried to make peace by calling her; she keeps on saying all nonsensical talks. Even we tried talking to her father. He also tried to talk to her, but have no result.
But her aunt tried very much backing her in all aspects. She started blaming my father & mother for verbally abusing my wife & tortures her mentally for dowry. She started denoting false and foul statements in public. My wife also does as she said & started blaming me, my brother & my parents for physical torture & abusing her.
Last year we have a baby girl in August 2014 after a cesarean operation. My wife & her aunt make again nonsense blame on us that we are trying to kill her by the help of doctors.
In March 2015 her aunt takes this matter in Village Panchayat. They talked with me & my Parents & also my wife in presence of local police. After all, they given the decision in fever of us & scolded my wife & warned her aunty to do not enter fare in our family matter.
This caused my wife & her aunt to have personal grudge on us and both of them torturing us in all aspects.
Now my wife tried to make drama on every domestic issue & threatened us that she going to file complains at local police station blaming that we are tried to kill her giving slow poison in food & the name of medicine.
You are requested that please suggest us what we tried to do
Sunil kumar Mehra