My family forcefully married me to a girl of their choice before 7 months, while I intended to marry someone of my choice. We had lot of dramas in our house before marriage especially between me and my parents. My wife and her parents got hint that there is something suspicious going on in our family for this marriage, but since they were well prepared for marriage and the girl was really interested in marrying me, they never focused on any such indication.
Few days before marriage, I took my wife out and told her that there are lot of problems in our family for my marriage and I am not interested in marrying right now but she didn't pay attention and said marriage has to take place.
After marriage, my wife came to know the reality that I was never interested in marrying her and wanted to marry someone else. She had very good relation with my family before marriage but all of sudden she stopped talking to everyone in my family and went to her hometown.
She brought her real aggression after marriage, If she feels I don't pay attention to her or don't make her feel I am in love with her, She brings matters of my past relationships and threatens me.
My marriage was more or less death of my emotions and happiness, my wife doesn't know and doesn't want to understand the painful days I passed during marriage, All she needs is love and happiness which is her first right but the way marriage took place, I asked her I need time in this relation too.
Her problem is she doesn't want to listen anyone, sticks to her thoughts only most of the time and if something doesn't go in her favor, she starts criticizing immediately without giving single pulse of thought. Her expectations are most important part of her life. She was so quite and reserved before marriage and 500 times has become more aggressive and dominating prone after marriage. I am fed with my life to such that I feel even killing myself, however my parents don't have anyone to look after, which binds me.
Initially I tried to explain her I will not be able to keep her happy ( this also means I have NO relation with my past girl anymore and not interested either), but want to see my wife happy. I am now ready to compromise my life with my wife, but not meeting her expectation level for somehow or satisfy what she wants. Her aggression and ruthless talks may break my patience one day and might lead us to big fight, which I don't want to see.
I live and work in Australia. I am under immense pressure in this relation as my wife's aggressive nature adding more fuel to my marriage tragedy. Things will be more complicated upon my return to India. Her parents might make things more tough. my parents are old and have troubled health, they won't be able to face tough situations if something happens.
My wife neither wants to leave me peacefully nor wants to adjust with current situation. She broke all relations with my family, my parents cry everyday they made blunder of my life and her too. I understand she as a wife needs love and feelings, but She doesn't realize how much pain had to face in taking this marriage, I am human being too. Rebound and transformation also takes time, that doesn't happen overnight especially when I had all the way downfall in my career, professional and personal life since marriage.
Please advise, if any situation of such as separation arises, any peaceful solutions are there from legal and general advice point of view.
Thank you !