The matter has been put in-front of her mother and brother several times. Her father expired in 2010. They all are taking the matter very lightly. Last time when i informed them they told me that its the matter of your house and you have to handle it.
they told that me and my parents are torturing her which is not true.
She take the least responsibility of the house. She does nothing in the house. She is a dentist n hardly she go to clinic for abt 2-3hrs(10.30am to1.00pm). we have a maid and she do all the house work from preparing breakfast, washing clothes, preparing lunch dinner everything and when ever i tell her to do some house hold work or take some responsibilities she reacts as if she is in hell and starts blaming everything on me that i m torturing her, i want to make her my slave etc. and she keep on thinking again and again. all the negative thought comes in her mind.
very recently i noticed that she was taking to her college male friend for long time like 40min, 30min continuously.around 3months back she was in her mother's home. she accepted that she used to talk to him regularly and share her feeling. which made me very insecure. i told her that you were with your brother, sister in law and mother then what is the need of sharing our personal life with someone else. But i sometimes think that its something more than this.
yesterday also she wrote a lot in her diary like she is planning to suicide which i read today at 10.45am. in the night she was talking very childish like she used to do every time. she was telling that if she dies donate her body to the hospital , they will study with my body. after me you go for second marriage. means she was talking in a very childish manner. and in morning every thing was alright. she was talking normally as nothing happened.
i have not taken any legal action or have official lodged a general diary because i think she wont do it. and i have also taken advice from many people that such type of person never suicide. if i make any legal complain then our relationship will almost come to an end. it will unnecessary create drama in our relationship.
What i think is she is acting very childish.