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Mental harassment by wife
« on: September 08, 2016, 07:27:57 AM »
My name is samadarshi ghosh.
I am looking for suggestion on how to cope with my wives mental torture.
I met my wife in a gym 4 years ago and since then we were in a relationship. I love her very much. In this relationship we once broke up for 6 months since my parents wanted me to get married to her. But even after 6 months i couldn't forget her and we patched up. After all this we got married in april 2016 but to my shock i lost my job just a few days earlier to my marriage and my mistake was that i didnt tell her about the same at that time. I told her everything on the day of marriage.
It took me this 4 months to get a job which i am supposed to join from the coming monday. But all these 3 months i never gave anything less to her although i didnt have a job. I gave everything humanly possible to give to a wife even without  a job but she has started telling me that i have destroyed her carrier, she has also claimed that i married her with a preplan of having food with her income and also states that i married her for her property n all ( which she doesn't have any). She uses foul languages on me stating that i am a liar , my whole family is a liar , i am a mentally ill person, i am a person who doesn't have any fathers recognition (using all slangs) and every time she tells me that i have married her with all pre planning .
But you will be astonished to hear that in the past 4 years of our relationship i have never taken a penny from her nor i even had a single drop of water with her money and for all these years everything was given to her be me. When i mean everything means everything with included her pocket money apart from everything else.
Even during marriage i have not taken a single piece of rice also from my inlaws. What ever they gave me as gift on the wedding day i returned them everything the very next day . And now she accuses me of all these things .
Now she has even claimed to her parents infront of everyone that i and my family torture her everyday.
Now she is threatening us that she will book us under this 498a case .
please suggest what to do. I have kept all the whatsapp conversation where she has insulted me and my family along with my conversation.
Please suggest what can be done.
Eagerly looking forward for anyones response.

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Re: Mental harassment by wife
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2016, 03:44:40 AM »
Once you join the job and then take care of her financial needs things will settle down.
it is the financial insecurity in the person that is cause of disagreements.
you need to demonstrate that you are committed to the marriage and will take care of all of financial, social, personal needs of a woman.
join the job and establish yourself as a good husband.
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Re: Mental harassment by wife
« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2016, 01:21:57 AM »
Dear Sir,

Forget all these things. Please try to work out the marriage. I agree with my ld. colleague that there may be some insecurity due to you not having any job. Give sometime to the marriage.

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Re: Mental harassment by wife
« Reply #3 on: September 13, 2016, 09:18:08 AM »
It is better to lodge a written complaint to local police station against your wife's illegal activities for your safeguard. Now a days, you cannot take a risk under such situation. In West Bengal Court, specially Alipore, Howrah, Barasat, etc Chief Judicial Magistrate are not giving bail to the husband.

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Re: Mental harassment by wife
« Reply #4 on: October 01, 2016, 07:39:54 AM »
There are Multiple option available to you and You can come out crystal clear without any harassment and embarrassment such as
1. Police complaint ,
2. You can also file Dowry case against your wife as per law,
3. Complaint filed by wife against husband and in-laws for Dowry are not so easy as of now.
4. Matrimonial case for divorce in family court if you want Divorce etc
There are other various legal remedies available to you as per law.
I assure there is nothing to be afraid for your wife cruelty etc against you and we can take many steps which will safeguard your future, mental trauma etc from many hurdles.

Please be free to contact then we can discuss in details.

Advocate Ashok Yadav

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Re: Mental harassment by wife
« Reply #5 on: October 01, 2016, 10:49:49 PM »
No need to worry about 498a case, if FIR would be concerned then you may get bail easily.It is not clear, now you are living together or your wife left your home. If she is with your home then file a suit for Judicial Separation, on the other hand if she left matrimonial home then file a Divorce Suit.

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